Since ancient times men have had a desire to get high positions in the
society. The reason of it is that a high social status always makes a person
respectable and influential, provides worthy life conditions and fulfillment of
many dreams. A social status is determined by several factors. Usually
sociologists ascribe authority, richness, income, education and a job to them.
Nobody will refuse, getting a worthy position is not an easy thing.
First of all, it is because any success is earned only by your own labour. As a
confirmation I would like to remember Marva Collins’s words: "Success doesn’t
come to you… you go to it”. Undoubtedly, the way to the top is long and thorny.
It is like a staircase, where each step is full of difficulties and obstacles,
which you are to overcome to be a success, as it is said "per aspera ad astra”.
A good way to touch the stars and become a worthy citizen is a career:
the series of jobs that a person has in a particular area of work, usually
involving more responsibility as times passes. To my mind, a career presupposes
moving forward very quickly.
Nowadays there are a lot of people who strive for building a career, who
are ready to devote themselves completely to it. A career takes the first place
in their life, that is why they are called careerists. "First of all I will get
a well-paid and prospective job, buy a house, a car, everything I need and then
will think of making a family”- the ideas of such a kind occupy human mind more
and more today. Especially women are influenced by this tendency. A career
woman considers that her business is more important than getting married and
having children.
To tell the truth, this phenomenon is controversial. Some people think a
woman should be a housewife, who keeps home, creates cosiness and warmth in the
family according to her nature.
From another point of view, being a housewife makes representatives of a
weak sex dependent on their husbands who earn money for family. In this
situation majority of women feel discomfort, because their freedom is limited.
It is known to contradict the right of all people for freedom. Modern women are
literate juridically: they know all the rights and want no discrimination.
Thus, a great number of women turn into successful and self-satisfied
business-ladies. I must confess that I dream to be like them. To my way of
thinking I am in the running.
My first step on the way to the top is education. It is sure to be the
beginning of any career. If you want to be successful, you should be plunged
deeply in thought, understand yourself and choose a profession in accordance
with your desire. Four years ago I entered MikhailovkaTeacherTrainingCollege.
My choice is right for sure. In a year I will become a teacher of the English
language. How noble it is to love children, teach and bring them up, giving
each pupil a piece of your heart and care! Teachers are and always have been at
the cutting edge of education, especially teachers of foreign languages, whose
work is special, difficult but interesting. Interesting, fascinating and
productive work always brings people happiness.
Studying is the main occupation for me today. It is pleasant and
flattering to be good at it, but it is absolutely impossible to be only a success.
Our life is like interchangeability of stripes: colored, white and,
unfortunately, black. To be mistaken sometimes is a human quality.
Nevertheless, mistakes or defects in my work are percepted as a light defeat, which
provides mild depression: the state when nothing seems to be desirable and attractive,
you don’t hear birds’ singing, don’t feel the warmth of the Sun beams and don’t
notice the beauty of young life. The remedy against this disease is necessary.
My medicine is the poem written by Edgar A. Guest:
Figure it out for yourself, my lad,
You’ve all that the greatest of men have had,
Two arms, two hands, two legs, two eyes
And a brain to use if you would like be wise.
With this equipment they all began,
So start for the top and say "I CAN”.
Look them over, the wise and great
They take their food from a common plate,
And similar knives and forks they use,
With similar laces they tie their shoes.
The world considers them brave and smart,
But you’ve all they had when they made their start.
You can triumph and come to skill,
You can be great if you only will.
You’re well equipped for what fight you choose,
You have legs and arms and a brain to use,
And the man who has risen great deeds to do
Began his life with no more than you.
You are the handicap you must face,
You are the one who must choose your place,
You must say where you want to go,
How much you will study the truth to know.
God has equipped you for life, but He
Lets you decide what you want to be.
Courage must come from the soul within,
The man must furnish the will to win.
So figure it out for yourself, my lad.
You were born with all that the great have had,
With your equipment they all began,
Get hold of yourself and say "I CAN”.
These words, like a thunderstorm after a tiring hot day, bring freshness
to my mind, pour new strength into my inner world. Inspired, I am ready to act
again.
I have a purpose: to know English perfectly and have a prestigious job
connected with it. Though it seems to be fogged a bit now, each my step up
makes me nearer to it.
Having no purpose, a person floats in the current of life like a log in
a river. On the other hand, when he has a goal, he imagines clearly what to
undertake for his achievements, as though, makes a plan of future actions. I
believe with whole my heart that I can achieve my purpose. I am persistent and
strong-willed. But, like anyone, I can be at a loss. In this case, I should be
ready to take up a challenge bravely and be able to come out any situation as a
winner.
Making a career can be considered as a long competition with
circumstances and ourselves, where we must become swifter, higher, stronger, to
put it in, perfect ourselves. People should strive for the better, it doesn’t matter
in which sphere of life, in everything, including material values. A good
career is supposed to provide good income. This is one of the reasons why
people try to develop from a beginner to an experienced professional. Money is
always sunny, isn’t it?
Unfortunately, very often we meet someone who can prevent us from having
this sunny thing and getting to the top. They can be called opponents or even
enemies, who are usually full of envy towards you. Every time they give you a
sullen glare, want to touch hone, take the measure of your foot and look
forward to your fall. To save ourselves we must be constantly attentive, stand
our ground and trust only reliable friends. Otherwise, we could be easy bewildered,
get in a trap and ultimately say "Good-bye” to all our hopes and plans.
Though, opponents can be considered from a positive point of view, as
one more stimulus for hardening and becoming stronger. There is a simple truth:
when you know that someone wishes you to have defeat, it makes you be more
active and hardworking to prove everyone that you will get to the top in spite
of everything, even their insidious plans to take the wind out of your sails.
In the modern world many of us tend to think that it is impossible to
make a good career without great sums of money and knowing the right people.
These factors are really useful for a career, as well as good luck. Favourable
circumstances take place in our life, as everyone is in the running. When life is
generous, we should not let slip the chance through the fingers but catch a
fortune for its tail.
However, the most important bases of success in life are mentioned in a
wise Russian proverb: "Patience and work will win everything”, even if you are
an extremely talented person, your talent is nothing without work. Pablo
Picasso said: "I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may
learn how to do it”. We should work and improve our skills to achieve all we
want in life.
My life ties in front of me. There are a lot of
unspoiled pages in my book of time. I will do everything possible no one of
them to be lived senselessly, no one of them to have place for losing. The
future is unpredictable, but I know, I am on the right way. My heart is full of
hope that some time will pass, all the obstacles will be overcome and a great
purpose of life will be achieved. I will do one more step, reach the top and
enjoy a desirable fruit of my work. I could win a fortune in a long competition
of life. I will say "I CAN” and touch the stars.
Your words have really made me worried...not about getting-to-the-top women, but about your negative attitude to them. And still you "dream to be like these business-ladies". Does it mean that you would like to become a "machine"? I suppose, no. It's more evidently that you are thinking about being confident, hardworking and strong in order to reach success. Well, this is the very thing that everybody wants. As for the care, it's not only women's duty. Men are also responsible for it, aren't they? You see, it really doesn't metter who you are - a man or a woman - if you have a desire to take care of somebody, develope your language skills, overcome some difficulties, get closer to the top, why not to do it? And the aim of the essay is to make you believe that "YOU CAN" do it! Hey! It's not a piece of a dream, it's a reality!)))
a great number of women turn into successful and self-satisfied business-ladies. I must confess that I dream to be like them. - and who will care about men, children and cosiness, I wonder? just another bitter drop into the cup of my hopeless assurance that all the women around me are not women but getting-to-the-top-machines... yet can't put nothing except a 5 - get what you deserve. Well-structured and properly balanced piece of a dream. Wish all your dreams come true.