Is it easy to be young?Even this question is difficult to answer if you really ought to answer with a yes and
no!Not an easy answer indeed; so let me
explain why.Earlier in life when at
school I can look back and now realize that it was easy, but at the time I
thought that the regime was highly disciplined, having to get up early, dress
in my school uniform, walk what seemed miles to the bus stop in all weathers,
spend all day at school with all that discipline, then come back making the
journey home, have my tea and then spend hours on my homework.If I was lucky I could finish in time to
watch TV before being marched off to bed.Another day gone. Thenanother one. Of course some days we played
sports which was fun, even if it was just to get out of the classroom.
But,
as was explained to me many times, not only by my parents, but also my
grandparents andthe teachers, all this
hard work was to get me well educated so that I could follow a career.Well life seem to get harder not easier at
college, more work, more homework, more exams, less sports other than in my own
time which ate into my homework or even sleep time.After working so hard university came
next.A blessing for working hard.Again, you could say this was easy and
hard.Easy because you were your own
boss, you could go or not go to lectures, work hard or take it easy.If you did not work hard then there would be
trouble at home.But all those
distractions, boys, and lots of them take your pick, parties, fun, plenty to
drink, you could smoke, we were now grown up adults would you believe, we
thought so. Even drugs could be passed around at hardly any cost, but expensive
when it came to the consequences.You
can understand how the youth of today are a mixed bag of individuals.We have the minority which is working hard to
be someone. The majority, who in their wisdom try to make it and succeed but
end up in good jobs with a home, car, family just like my parents.There are of course the few that don’t make
it and follow the wrong road and end up being the undesirables.
These are the few that get the most publicity, the ones we all to often
hear about causing harm and destruction.It becomes a national problem and laws are made that hinder the many
because of the few.Taking the wrong
road is easy, easy by being lazy and not working hard in younger life. They
become parents and their children have not the discipline they need, which
makes the problem worse.So, there is an
element of the young society that need reforming, getting it into their brains
that there is a better way of life, but that’s difficult.Difficult because laziness has set in and
hard to change.Difficult because they
need work and a sense of achievement, to find work is also hard in this day and
age.The few despise those that have
made it and in these hard times and are finding it easy to award themselves
great pay bonuses.All this because
there are too many choices?Choices when
we are young and do not really understand. Perhaps.So how do you overcome the problem not easy,
with legislation?No, with education and
a slight return to the old ways of doing things.Whatever, difficult.
Perhaps providing more opportunities for their leisure time could be
part of the answer, this would also create more jobs, however, it requires
money.Where is this going to come
from?Government or the successful few!
I now realize how lucky I have been in being brought up by parents who have
indoctrinated me with the reasons for hard work and the discipline the gave
me.They have been like this because
they know no different thanks to their parents, my grandparents.
So
my belief is that a good moral upbringing with respect to those who know best
can help overcome some of the difficulties for the youth of today.Throughout these paragraphs I have used the
words easy, difficult and hard several times. This confirms what I said at the
outset; yes and no in my mind can only be the answer.It may be argued one way or the other, if
this is the case then which ever side of the fence you’re on you will be right,
but to sit on the fence must be right also, hence yes and no.
Is it easy to young? That's really difficult to answer. I'm strongly sure that there are more no than yes. I had the same situation in my life, my parents used to indoctrinated me principles of being an educated, strong-minded and smart individuality. It bothered them greatly. And I was tired of obtrusion such life's walkways. But now I can give them only thanks. My god godmother always says: "Take it easy!". But the youth is in a great trouble now, we have to survive somehow. This somehow needs a back-breaking work. That's why it is not easy to be young. P.S. I join in with the Reader's comments.
I beg your pardon to open argument. To Mr. Therion: You can only hope to learn to speak the language and she speaks it every second of her life.Let me ask the girl for an excuse, I hope you didn't mean to hurt her feelings, and Anne won't take your words too close. To the girl: you've done the work, it's unigue. My delight!