"What are you
doing on the weekends?”It’s the most
popular question among young people at the end of the week. "I don’t know”,
follows the answer. Such a typical situation for the present-day youth! As for
me, I don’t know what to do at my free time either, but I exactly know what the
majority of young people of my age do when they have a minute to spare: they
lie on the sofa chewing something and watching TV. I do the same.
When my mother
sees me sitting in front of the TV-set glued to the screen, she says: "Why not
go out and have some fun?” But what should I do to have fun? I really don’t
understand the meaning of these words. Where to go, what to do to have fun?
Maybe, if someone raised my spirits or taught how to organize my leisure I
would fully understand the meaning of Mom’s words, but so far I can only say
that I don’t know anyone who is responsible for such a situation when we don’t
know where to go and what to do. I don’t see any organizations which could help
us with leisure. Yes, each of us used to have some hobby when we were
teenagers, but when we become older we give up our hobbies, because we do
something what is interesting for us only when we are teenagers. But why not
keep the same hobby being an adult, but do that on a higher level? For example,
when I was a pupil, I used to attend Art School, but when I finished it, I
stopped drawing. Now I think that if there were some Art Studios in my native
town I would certainly continue this activity, so interesting for me, but in a
more professional way. I suppose that every young citizen of my town wants to
find an occupation to his taste, but alas! We haven’t got such clubs and
studios for students of afterschool institutions here. I think that the problem
of leisure time would have been partly solved if we had such, but our state
officials have no time for our problems, and it’s sad. As a result, a lot of
young people aimlessly loiter about the street. And that causes another
problem.
Youth is the
time when a person wants to show his individuality and stand out from the
crowd. How can they do that? Teenagers demonstrate it by their clothes,
behaviour and preferences. So they join different sub cultural groups: emos,
goths, punks, skin heads and many others. They gather in groups and spend their
time in the way peculiar to this or that sub culture. For example, if we see a
person in black wearing a necklace with Celtic crosses, we know that it is a
goth. A graveyard is a usual place of goths’ meetings. They tend to spend their
time in gloomy and fearful places. Psychologists name a lot of reasons why
young people should go to such unpleasant places, but in my opinion, they may
join such groups because of their idle way of life and absence of any other
interests. In such companies, a teenager finds friends with similar tastes and
hobbies, and so they spend time together. I think such sub cultures don’t give
much to a young person, but at the same time it doesn’t take anything too. For
example, I share the apartment with a girl who used to be a member of the group
who call themselves "straight edgers”. This is a branch which comes out from
the rockers’ subculture. They have their own traditions and laws which they are
to observe. I don’t want to concentrate the reader’s attention at this; I only
want to stress that when this girl became older she left the group of "straight
edgers” because she realized that there were some other values in life.
Nowadays a lot
of young people spend their time in a quite similar way. They prefer sitting in
cafes and drinking beer if they can afford it, but if they can’t, they gather
in yards of block houses and do the same: drink beer. Some of them go to night
clubs to have fun together, but that always comes with alcohol too. Russia
loses its young generation in such clubs and bars because it is there where
drug dealers find their victims. So, I don’t think that a night club is the
best place for the youth; on the other hand, we have no other places to have
fun and dance. Perhaps, the solution of this problem is in clubs’ managers’
actions: they must be on the alert so that the visitors couldn’t bring drugs,
but club owners won’t do that because they have their own profits from deals
with drug sellers; moreover, they have a part from sales. Thus, money is made
not only in clubs but in drug sales too.
So the problem
exists and will exist, until the society realizes all the gravity of the
situation which leads the young generation to degradation. We already observe
that there are a lot of lazy young people who do nothing to be cleverer and
develop themselves. We used to be a nation which called themselves the most
reading one, but what are we like now? A person can say, "I like reading
books”, but if you ask him, "Which book have you read the last?” he doesn’t
know what to say, and it’s a pity because this man doesn’t put any meaning into
his words about books. Should he have read the book he would have remembered
its title.Speaking of me, I can say
that I’m not a fan of reading but I like looking through the mass media, and I
always remember the newspaper I read last. I am also fond of watching films
like every normal young person, but I am not rich enough to go to the cinema
very often. Today a cinema ticket costs more than a student can afford. So we have
to sit at home and watch most of the new films of a bad quality on a small
TV-screen. I think if tickets were cheaper there would be more students in
cinema houses every day. On the other hand, what is on there? We have hardly
any good films like those we used to have at the time of the Soviets. Nowadays,
all Russian pictures are made similar to American ones. Our films do not arise
in the young generation patriotic feelings and love to the Motherland. There is
a lot of cruelty and violence in them. So, maybe, it is good that I haven’t got
enough money to go to the cinema very often because the majority of Russian
films don’t teach us to good and positive.
Thus, if I
can’t relax in the cinema, where should I go then? Once I asked one young man
how he spent his spare time and whether he had any problems in organizing it.
His answer was not a surprise to me: he complained that he didn’t know any
normal places for entertainment in Salavat, there are only bars and low-grade
cafes where young people drink, smoke and gamble. Doing sports costs much too!
If you want to be healthy you have to pay for it. And we wonder why our young
generation is so weak physically! I am sure that sport gyms must be free of
charge or at least entrance fees should not be too high. In that case, not only
those who have money but every person who wants to keep fit will be able to
attend such places. All that made me think that maybe we are to blame ourselves
for not being able to organize our leisure time.
I asked my
mother if she used to have similar problems in her youth. I wondered whether
her generation had had other interests, thoughts and values. I was surprised a
little when she told me that they had been like we. She only added that the Soviet
youth had not had serious problems in organizing leisure. Everyone had known
what to do and had pursued his/her life goal. Mom also told me that they had
not had anyone to organize their spare time; they did that themselves.
It occurred to me that
we simply got used to lay the blame on somebody else. Really, in the past, if
the young people needed something, they tried to find the solution of the
problem themselves. There were independent youth clubs which were responsible
for different events aimed on organizingyouth’s leisure. In my opinion, people must enrich themselves with spiritual
food, not material one. And this "food” can be not only interesting but helpful
too. Nowadays, young people stopped visiting Art galleries, museums and other
interesting places where they could get this spiritual food. Most of them live
useless and boring lives. What will they leave for the coming generation? A
rhetorical question…I think that we should strive to be better than the
previous generation to make our country powerful and prosperous. My mother always says that I must
reach higher results in this life than she did, so that my grandchildren may be
proud of me. Not to lose ourselves in this hard and cruel life; not to give way
to gloomy thoughts of the present! Our destiny is to continue all that was
created by our grandparents for us, but not to destroy it. We should not waste
our time to useless temptations: life is too short to live it aimlessly.